Oh, I want my ex back now is a common complaint of many men and women after the break-up. There are opinions out there which promote never getting back with an your ex again. This theory proclaims that once something is broken, such as a relationship, it can never be repaired so it is best to leave it as it is - broken.
Alternatively, other relationship counselors claim that with intention, ingenuity and work, some couples can reunite successfully. The catch to this theory is the belief that there should never be an attempt to reclaim exactly the former relationship because it had proven itself to be faulty. A new, stronger relationship can be rekindled and cultivated based upon the salvaged good parts of the old one along with determination, forgiveness and dedication to the cause.
Some relationships have a good chance of rekindling love after breakup while others may not be able to pass the test. Factors for success are dependent upon the people and their circumstances. A very important factor is also to determine how willing and serious each other is to committing to a permanent reunion.
In most cases the person lamenting the wish for the ex's return is the one who was left behind. Usually the person left behind is not the one who sought to break up the relationship. There have been circumstances and occasions when the person left behind will have moved on and the person who walked away in the first place ends up ironically becoming the lamenter.
When one finds oneself pining for an ex, experts say to grieve the loss then to restore and refresh oneself with friends - both old and new, take up new hobbies or revive old ones, take a class, join clubs, etc. Given time, one fine day the one left behind will realize that they are thinking less and less about their ex and more and more about their gradual reunion with their own life, their new experiences and a bright future.
One great way to get over your ex is to join an online dating site. By doing so, one can meet and chat with many people with whom they may have never crossed paths over a lifetime. If for no other reason, it will serve to fill the void. In the long run individual might find that perfectly compatible person with whom they will share their future and will never again utter or even think the phrase, "I want ex back". How refreshing!
Alternatively, other relationship counselors claim that with intention, ingenuity and work, some couples can reunite successfully. The catch to this theory is the belief that there should never be an attempt to reclaim exactly the former relationship because it had proven itself to be faulty. A new, stronger relationship can be rekindled and cultivated based upon the salvaged good parts of the old one along with determination, forgiveness and dedication to the cause.
Some relationships have a good chance of rekindling love after breakup while others may not be able to pass the test. Factors for success are dependent upon the people and their circumstances. A very important factor is also to determine how willing and serious each other is to committing to a permanent reunion.
In most cases the person lamenting the wish for the ex's return is the one who was left behind. Usually the person left behind is not the one who sought to break up the relationship. There have been circumstances and occasions when the person left behind will have moved on and the person who walked away in the first place ends up ironically becoming the lamenter.
When one finds oneself pining for an ex, experts say to grieve the loss then to restore and refresh oneself with friends - both old and new, take up new hobbies or revive old ones, take a class, join clubs, etc. Given time, one fine day the one left behind will realize that they are thinking less and less about their ex and more and more about their gradual reunion with their own life, their new experiences and a bright future.
One great way to get over your ex is to join an online dating site. By doing so, one can meet and chat with many people with whom they may have never crossed paths over a lifetime. If for no other reason, it will serve to fill the void. In the long run individual might find that perfectly compatible person with whom they will share their future and will never again utter or even think the phrase, "I want ex back". How refreshing!
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